As ‘shallow’ or whatever this might sound, I honestly think that the easiest / fastest / best way to get over someone, is to meet someone else. If you don’t have anyone else to put your attention on, you’ll obviously continue to think about your ex, and hence, become emotional and sad and cry all day. Thats not good. If you have someone else to focus on - Someone who can make you smile like your ex could(past tense!), then you wouldn’t be crying all day over your ex. RIGHT ?!
I seriously think meeting someone new is the best idea, and no! Its not ‘using’ them or whatever, because you actually do like them. As long as you don’t date someone you don’t even like, just to get over your ex, then its perfectly fine. I don’t see why people are all like “Omg you’re so shallow and thats so bitchy” when people do that, because I honestly don’t see anything shallow or bitchy about moving on from someone who hurt you / made you cry.
Its better for both yourself, and whoever you end up being with afterwards. Just because your ex hurt you and made you cry or whatever, doesn’t mean every other person you meet will do the same. Not every one is the same; give other people a chance, you might actually be happy for once. It’d be a wonderful change from all that crying, YES ?!
Going to UCHS to return books, and get my exit papersss so i can tranfer. Then startin scho0l at Garfield HS thursday. Classes with other girls like me. TROLLEY ALLL BY MYSELF!. Dx im scared. But yeah, i need to.